Puppy- Thank you for your words. It means a bunch coming from you because I respect you so very much as well.
TAL- Thanks. I agree. I remember Sara telling me that if you are always looking for someone that is "better" for you at the moment, you would be changing husbands like you change underwear. I don't want a new husband everytime I change. I choose my H and I work at having a good marriage.
lis- You're welcome for commenting on your sitch. I try to help others see the "other side" as foggy as it is so that at least you understand why the spouse is hurting you the way she is. Thanks for your words to me, too. If only everyone realized how much they helped me through this. If it weren't for all of the people on DB, I'm not sure I would have made it. I needed you all to help me see clearly. My Egf was not helping me.
Yenko- I'm glad I'm helping. I'd like to say, too, that the words of wisdom you have given people lately has been right on. Thanks for your wishes and encouragement.
