I am pleased that things are beginning to settle for you.
I just wanted to clarify....has your H actually said he is working on the M and staying with you? That he is no longer going to have contact with OW?
If so I think that is great.
I feel quite cautious about this though I must say - but having said that I don't know your H and so perhaps I am being unfair. I just hope he is not turning back homewards for the wrong reasons, (like he is feeling wounded and hurt and kicked by life....and he didn't like sleeping in his car), and that he is doing this because he has realised just how fantastic you are and how lucky he is to have you in his life.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength