HI Tal,
I'm happy to hear that your H is seeing things as a team with you. I think in my sitch that too is a common problem-we would both get into the "me" syndrome and the "you" syndrome...gotta be a team, gotta be partners in this journey called marriage.
I admire the way you are able to get in such fine tune with your feelings and be able to communicate all that to your H and he's receiving it very well too!!! I think my H failed to express his feelings often times because he didn't think I'd respond to him "properly"--think he was afraid I wouldn't validate them.
Thanks for the compliment on my 180's--I'm going to keep trying and hope that it works..if not I'll try something else--I'm not giving up or giving in! I want him back home!!!
Good Luck with your R talk tomorrow, I'll be checking in here with you as I'm sure so will others--remember we're all with you and thinking of you--good thoughts only!! Lots of PMA!!!


Pam "Life is a dance!!"