Hi Tal- Tough sitch for sure-I don't think I would want/allow or whatever my H to continue to work with OW!! You'd always be wondering what was going on..and if you can get past that-then God Bless you! I know if/when H decides the M is worth a try and his A dies the natural death I'm told it should---I'm already thinking--change email/change cell phone #/get restraining order against her for any contact so I can land her in jail if she violates.. he he he!!! At least she doesn't live close anymore!!! sigh! Keep up the good work Tal--it's really looking like a bright road ahead for you! Pam