Did he push you again? I thought it had been awhile since he'd done that. If he's doing it again, that's pretty bad.
Clearly he feels a boundary has been crossed. He doesn't see things the way you see them. So how does that sync with your own perspective? Who knows why he does what he does, but that's what he does and it doesn't sound like he's going to change very easily. This is who he is and you are put in the position of determining how much you're willing to accept.
I understand needing to get work done. But you also can't allow that to take over and not deal with your emotional life. Suppression isn't good, so maybe you can find a balance of some sort?
Take some time for yourself so that you can get rid of some of that spinning - take a long walk or whatever. Work is much easier after that.
