Naw...B-U knows I don't have Tourettes. She may be abit slow, but the whole thing must have sunk in by now.
My whole point in this exercise was to be able to openly confront OW in H's workplace, let B-U know that I know a great deal about her life and have to-date excersized supreme self-control in NOT doing anything to hurt her, to have her see that H and I are a team, and to get away with it all! Hopefully she got the message loud and clear that she should have been VERY afraid all of this time and didn't have the sense to know it.
Not to mention the pure joy of being able to call her a B-U skank to her face!!! That was truly cathartic to vent a bit of my rage directly at her. I have no interest in obsessing about her or messing with her from here on out UNLESS she doesn't take the hint and continues messing with me and mine, you know?
Guess I do have quite an imagination, enit. I know Sherman Alexie--maybe he could mentor me to do a movie story. The performance thing is just an evolution of something H and I have done from the beginning of our R. Before the R, when I was a single mom and my boys would try to act up in public, I embarrased the B-Jez out of them by acting....um....like I was developmentaly retarded. When H and I were first dating, we went out in public with one of his boys and two of mine. The boys started acting up, thinking I'd never do my "routine" in front of this guy I was seeing. Instead, H started acting developmentally retarded and embarrased them terribly. I laughed my butt off and knew I'd met my soul mate. After that, H and I would do it as a team. Publically embarrasing the boys has been one of our hobbies ever since. The Tourettes thing was a natural evolution of something we'd been doing for years.
Anyway...
gathering information and having wicked fantasies about what you would like to do to an OP is probably a healthy way to deal with the rage and feeling of helplessness in the aftermath of a betrayal on the magnitude most of us have dealt with here, but acting out on those things is another matter.
I'm glad I didn't act out on B-U while in the frame of mind that could have caused a "crime of passion". Revenge is best served cold and with a good sense of humor.
P.S. Do you think this little stunt of ours will successfully blow her little rumor-mill out of the water? I'm thinking that the rumors about H and B-U will never be retold without our little performance trumping the whole story. If the Administrator ever figures out that the whole thing was contrived, she'll dig into it and find out about the whole mess. If she does find out about it...I personally think she'll have no sympathy for XOW and her role in all of this.
P.S.S. All XOW had to do was back off after H dropped her like a dead fish and told her he was determined to reconcile with me and his family. But nooooooo...she just wanted to keep poking an angry rattlesnake with a stick.....very foolish.
