I also think ML weakens the betrayed spouse's resolve, and makes it much harder to emotionally detach and do some of the tough stuff that's often necessary.
I can agree with that. It threw me for quite a loop and took awhile to recover. I see know why that is never a good idea.
Last edited by yenko69; 09/19/0801:17 PM.
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