He said it just happened, no big deal.

[kat727]

So you make the changes in yourself and take your share of the responsibility and he still blames you?! Sometimes they don't need a mirror but a big old knock upside the head.

Have you changed your life to make it the way YOU want it? Are you doing things for yourself? Are you talking to him, not accusing or blaming but actual talking? Maybe it has to come out in bits and pieces.

Heck, my x doesn't even think he has done anything wrong! This is 2 years later. How delusional is that?

kat