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Jak,
Then it seems like the compromise would be marital counseling or IC, where he wouldn't have to deal with groups. A weekend getaway doesn't seem like a fair compromise to me.

Let him know what you would consider a fair compromise.

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I told him a weekend getaway was not what Retro was about and that we needed to do something. He just said he knows it's not and left it at that.

I don't feel I should push too much right now as there is so much going on with his mom.

But I can't let it go either because if I do nothing will be resolved ever.

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Call me and let me know what's going on.


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