I think I am heading to first

[yenko69]

My W called last night because D11 was sitting on the curb. She said D11 told her she hated her aunt and yelling at her. She asked if I could talk to her. D11 would not get on the phone and the line disconnected. So back to texting.

M: See if she will call just want to talk for a minute
W: Dont worry about it. done it before on my own. I can do it
again. Sorry i bothered and sorry we ruined each others lives
hope u have a nice one
M: no bother did she calm down or do i need to come out there
W: I don't need you for anything. It doesn't really matter if she
calmed down or not does it?
M: it does she should not treat u that way
W: you've never been there before when i needed u, why start now
W: you will just text and say something came up anyway!!!!
M: I hope (hit send on accident)
W: u hope what
M: u will stop judging me from the past especially with the girls
who are more important then our problems
M: If I need to come out no problem unacceptable treating you
like that
W: if they were more important then u would want to help more.
Instead when I make u mad "something" more important always
comes up
W: done talking or did something come up as usual?

I was trying to text something back, I am pretty slow at it. While making a message D11 called. Talked to her for a little bit and told her we would talk more tomorrow when she came over.

M: Going to give her another talking to tomorrow night about her
behavior

On a side note, I think the OM is out of town for a couple months. His family has some guided hunting in SD and he goes up every year to help them. Worthless POS anyway.

[yenko69]

Well W should be at the L soon. Pretty sure she is going to file. I know I can't stop her and I can control my emotions and actions. It does hurt though. The good fight will continue for the kids, me and the M. I have my strategy for today and will keep with it. At least I have IC this afternoon. Good timing.

[yenko69]

It did not go to bad. I arrived at the house and W was not there. I gathered up some clothes and W and SD16 came in. W told SD16 to go down to her aunts so we could talk. I started getting D11's stuff ready so when she comes over tonight. My W thought I was picking up D11 at the house and said that she was just going to walk over after school. She asked when I was leaving and said about 30 min because I had IC at 100.

We talked about some things that needed to be done around the house. Then she said I needed to help her fill out some paperwork. I said that I was going to see a L first. She said that she could not file until it was done. That I still did not get the fact that we are getting a D. I told her I realized that. She said again that I needed to help her. I said I am going to see a L first. Then she said you don't get what I am saying. I told her she did not get what I saying. She said that you are not going to make this easy and help me. Then I could fill out the paperwork with my L and she would do the same and then get together with the L to hash it out. I told her that was fine.

She said that she did not mean to hurt me. I said I know and I never meant to hurt her. That I don't regret marring her, just hurting her. I told her I still wanted to work it out, but I could not do it with three people in the marriage. She just agreed and nodded her head. Then she said that sooner or later I would find someone else who would just want to blah blah (past problems). I said I am not the same person anymore. I said I know what I want in a R and want go out and do more things as money allows. She said she wished I had found myself two years ago. Pretty much it then left for IC.

Talked with the C who had seen the W for a little while. She said that W is just running on whatever emotion is going on. That she is not thinking anything through or has any rational thoughts.

On that note, W had been wanting to get rid of her dog because when she moved it would be easier without pets. So for SD16's b-day my W got her a puppy. Go figure.