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It is hard to remember that because of this condition, she may say horrible things about me, things I don't recognize as true. I'm far from perfect, but if I took her trashings to heart, I would be in a ward by now.


I am glad you can see this. It was me being like this that I think drove my H into having his A. I certainly was not blameless in it all anyways.

Good luck.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength