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Another boring day here. Having a HUGE craving for Gyros (thanks MWG!) but that's about it. Kinda down, but I'll get thru it.
The bank totally charged me $99 in overdraft fees!!! But they waived them once I called about it. Thank goodness!

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$99 in fees!!!!!!!!!!! Ouch but you were right on top of it and I am glad they waived the fees.

I have some gyros meat in the fridge I can cook up for you.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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I know you do! You're the one that got me thinking of them in the first place! \:\) I haven't had one for about 3 years now and when I get paid tomorrow I think I'll be treating myself to one!

I just tm a friend of mine said "I wish I could just ask H if he sees himself moving back home at all." Just the mood I'm in. I wish I knew.

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I don't usually like to eat gyros out in public as they are so messy and I would have to carry dental floss with me.

I understand you would love to know when your H might be coming home. Wouldn't we all like to know that. I really thought mine would have no choice but to come home now but not so.

Hang in there, be consistent, and be kind.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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Oh, guess what my daughter and I watched yesterday? Fatal Attraction. I almost texted H to tell him to turn on the tv and watch. Just kidding! He and I had seen it already. It is a real thriller right to the end.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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Hi FG! \:\)


Me:35, ex: 36
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FG glad the charges were waived. I know how you feel about asking your h when/if he is ever returning. You probably won't be happy with the answer, so don't bother.

We know that my h used to say, don't think I can, then don't know, and then he upgraded to soon. Like is soon 1 yr or 2. Soon to me is less than a month.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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Yea, exactly! I wanted to ask him badly yesterday but knew I wouldn't like the response so I didn't. I forced myself to not ask but it was worth it not to.
Soon to me is also within a week or so. Soon to these guys is months and months away. It's crazy how different their thinking is!

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Hi Kerry! \:\)

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How about we call each other's h's and ask them? Just kidding!!!!!

Two years ago h said, "I will come home when I say and when I am ready, not when someone else thinks I should come home."

Ever since then I have not really asked.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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