Huge fight today and then again tonight.

He paged me at work to tell me he is getting a new job and will have weekends off now so he wants D on weekends. I told him I wasn't thrilled about giving up that time with her and it worked out well that we both had different days off...he flipped out...told me he would take me to court....I told him that would be a bad idea since the court was ask the thirteen year old what she wanted to do and I thought it would be awful to put her in that situation. Ended that convo and after he dropped D off tonight and left without saying a word he called me back to tell me he would be coming to pick D up tomorrow night. This was not something that was planned so I said no...I already have plans with her...conversation went south from there ...he said awful things like D will only be happy if he's back miserable with me...I thought that was pretty mean and uncalled for and told him so. I seriously hate him right now...and the hate keeps getting stronger.

He threatened the court thing again and said if I wanted to start playing games I was going to regret it. It's so weird that these awful outbursts of his started since I've been trying to detach. Besides my slip up on Saturday, I don't call him, Text him...nothing. It's like he's trying to hurt me and get a reaction out of me. WTF???


Me 39
H 35
D 13