GEEEEZZ, you guys! I come back to see all of you folks giving me support and passing food too!

Feel like I've been through a real poop storm recently! I'm all disinfected and showered now, so I guess I can sit down and have a bite to eat.

It does make sense that Butt-Ugly would do something like that for vengeance. Causing me additional pain, causing more problems between he and I and causing him humiliation (not only in the workplace, but in the general community he works in is definately a stupid stunt if that's what she did!

I know that before he found out that she wasn't so sweet and innocent, he felt guilty for the relationship. I never have gotten an impression that he felt anything MORE than that about her. If she and/or her little friends at work are the root of this gossip, which I suspect they are---well, let's just say H has as much of a temper as I do. I wouldn't want to be in her shoes if he checks around and goes from feeling "nothing" for her to hating on her.

Ya know, when I started checking into who this woman was, there were a lot of questions that came up. I'm a degreed/licensced Paralegal Investigator, and so I'm not kidding about the ability to snoop. I didn't go too far with things at that point, but I did find some odd things out about her.

I found out that she's had 3 different social security numbers issued in 3 different states (bet the IRS would like to know) and has a criminal history in each of those states (bet she didn't put that down on her background check for her job). I found it very interesting how well she is hiding herself (from angry betrayed wives? from creditors? from an ex-husband she owes child support to? who knows?) because she's got an unlisted cell phone number in someone else's name, lives in a VERY rural hard to locate area, has only a P.O. Box (rented in a ficticious name) a car that is licensed to someone I have not been able to trace so far and a few other things that really make you go hmmmmmm.

Shiny, you asked me what I can do to snoop: I don't think I'm going to go too much into detail here, but because I've done a lot of skip-tracing of people to serve court documents on, I have a bag of high-tech tricks and low-tech disguises that you wouldn't believe.