"Or one more thought....does she WANT me to wonder where she is and what she is doing? Does she want me to call and ask how come she didn't call?...where are you wife, I was worried about you???"
How bout a simple text that says.. "having fun?"
"This just seems to get more strange as time goes on...there is not a sitch like this on this whole board in the months I have been here and I will bet there will never be one.....coming up to 6 months now and not a change. Up, down...good times and very few bad....ML....weekends away...dinners, partying...the best 6 months we have had in years, and.....????"
Sounds like my life now.
Granted my wife is not saying she is leaving.. she was a year ago.. actually now that I think about it.. This time last year I was living at Mom and Dads. I was actually doing all kinds of "Crazy" stuff. It's a good thing I figured out.. that if I kept on like I was.. I might be staying there a long time. You just really have to understand that you fight yourself more.. than you fight the other person. Just think.. if you had a mentor.. you guys could have been having a beer tonight.
Hopefully this is short lived and you will come back tomorrow and tell us about.. well you know.
Come on Lucky Cricket!
You can do better than this. I will point out.. your vent sessions seem to come further apart now.
Remember you Always must....
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
