Hiya Tal! Sounds like you are glad the weekend is over and seems like Monday has greeted you with a better PMA! Again, I urge you to trust in your gutt---all the signs point to malicious behavior on someone outside your sitch--you know-misery loves company! (think how we've been on that side of things--wanting to make OW life miserable because ours was when OW was sharing (in my case is sharing) things with H) OW is now the woman scorned and this is her only way to fight back! Fortunately, she doesn't seem to have your temper or inclination to become a convict! LOL I think that H wants to approach this together is fantastic and a very good sign!!! Also, that he acknowledges that you can "snoop" when insticts tell you to--that is a huge thing--good stuff!!! Hang in there--remember each day is a new adventure!!!