JWS, I think you've been hanging out with the little guy in my head. I wish that I had a better answer for you about when it's enough. Lola has always said to me that each of us are the only ones that can decide when we've had enough. Over in my latest thread, KerryK asked me if it weren't for the kids would I have already filed for D. That was a question that really got me thinking. I concluded that it would have taken as long and that my honor and integrity to my vows would have kept me trying for quite some time, but, that if I reached the place that I am at now without kids, I probably wouldn't hesitate.
I'm happy for the 80% and wish you all kinds of success with the other 20%.
