So who's really doing the cycling here - you or her?
Honestly, from what you wrote, I don't see her cycling. Perhaps a bit inconsiderate not to touch base with you tonight, but the rest of the week? I don't see cycling.
Except in you.
And be careful about creating what you fear.
Made me think of this, by way of example...
I think one of the worst questions a man can ask a woman is "Is it your time of the month?" If it is, you're still an inconsiderate lout. If it isn't, you're going to be feeling like it is anyway now.
I think you do this sometimes with her.
I know where it's coming from, you probably do too. Be nice to find a way to keep from doing it maybe.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."