Holy Cow! Tal...I take one day off to go to a pal's camp for a swim and BAM!!!!
How in the world am I to keep all of those posts in mind and respond in the 15 minutes I have left????
OKAY, FIRST....Tal, when I read your post about the gossip....MY intuition immediately said "NOPE, no way, bullshit!". That doesn't always happen here.
I read down your post, was amazed at how you handled it and thought you read it all correctly. Left over, embellished rumour crap! UGH!!!!!
(One of our more distant pals had CJ packing up and leaving to go to the OTHER side of the country from OW and all kinds of other nonsense).
NOW, that said....I know the feeling of believing in the moment, trusting your gut (as in my bomb #2) and then later (2 days for me) having serious doubts and worry and anger and snooping!!!
It didn't really do much good (the snooping, brought on a nasty scene or two)...
NOW I'd LOVE to join the "ugly OW" parade, I REALLY REALLY would....only my first glimpse of OW #2 (No real idea what the first one looked like) was a glamour shot she e-mailed me, perfect pose, perfect upswept shining blonde hair, heart shaped face, beautiful . She later sent a normal photo in which she was more just "attractive", about the same as me, I'd say, although she's younger.
I think I've almost eaten my time up Tal...so just what kind of snooping are you doing? What if H finds out? Might that not set you guys back quite a ways??
