The D is dismissed. Now what?

[peacetoday]

Upside
You have been a good friend to me and im so happy that your H is moving along in a positive way
I am very hopeful for you
this does seem to take time and none of us believe it will take so long, but it usually does
either way its 18mo-2years, then if the LBS is still waiting, sometimes you read or hear of a miracle like yours
but even if spouse doesnt return 18mo mark seems to be a shifting point to letting go for many of us LBS
We did the work on ourselves and we know we are ok
peace