If I have any advice whatsoever to anyone getting divorced, it's get it all done now. Do not put anything off to keep peace and get things done quietly. Because these guys aren't going through a MLC, they're just plain selfish SOB's. And they aren't going to change. If they have no empathy for their kids, they have none for anyone. If they don't care about their kids, they don't care about anyone. And it's apparently not a temporary thing.
Man isn't that the truth! It's onething to screw around when it comes to us but to drag their kids into is a whole other ballgame, and says it all loud and clear!
