Hey, Dan! You are doing good. I think you are clearer than you realize on your path forward! And, who knows, knowing that you indeed know, may make the running around a lot less fun.
My H has indicated (although I don't necessarily believe the whole story) that his R with OW isn't going the way he thought it would. I think that's mostly cause now she knows I know...maybe it's not as much fun for her now that she's not having to sneak around!
Just hang in there! We are all here rooting for you!!!
Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!