I was thinking about your thread. A death in the family is always a difficult time but I think that if one of my XPIL died I'd def. go to the funeral if I was still in the city/country. I don't think that a D means you stop being a family. It just changes the dynamics. I know it would be difficult if my x was remarried but I'd still go to the funeral even if just to pay respect to a person who was a part of my life for so long.
I do agree however that a OW or OM shouldn't go to the funeral if you're still M. However if you're D then I guess as hard as it would be they have the right to go too.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
