Have to add this in...More of a vent than anything else. That email from her today was tough. Another choice comment was "This marriage is a sickness" That kind of stunned me at first this morning and I shrugged it off for the most part and went to work. Now...the shock wave from that has come rolling in. That was quite an uppercut by her. Glad it wasn't a physical fight: I would have had a broken jaw from that one. I knew that the 'wave' was going to hit: When I get stressed, I usually start getting drowsy and thats what happened throughout the day until by the time I got home(staying at a friend's til next week) I pretty much had driven home in a fog. I'm glad that someone didn't cut me off today(a regular occurence here) because I probably would not have reacted in time- thats how OUT of it I was and still am. Ouch.