We make deals with them for the kids - to keep them out of it - to make peace - and it seems as if when we make a deal to keep the peace these freakin' worms keep trying to take advantage of us. It makes no sense to me because I don't at all understand how a parent could do that.
It's about him and the deal the two of you made, but he's bringing your daughter into it?
If I have any advice whatsoever to anyone getting divorced, it's get it all done now. Do not put anything off to keep peace and get things done quietly. Because these guys aren't going through a MLC, they're just plain selfish SOB's. And they aren't going to change. If they have no empathy for their kids, they have none for anyone. If they don't care about their kids, they don't care about anyone. And it's apparently not a temporary thing.
Queenie my X agreed to pay for the boys' education and then "changed his mind".
Anyway, please let us know how this goes tomorrow. Please post so others in the process of D'ing can see that when you make a deal with a pig, the pig eats the deal.
