Oh my God talitsa! You handled that so amazingly well. I am not surprised you feel sad your emotions have been really put through the ringer, it's always worse to get bad news when you have been feeling happy. I think you are right to give him the benefit of the doubt. Gossip can last long after the fact and it always gets embellished. Someone along the line has picked up this old story and decided to give it new life.
Do you think they pick butt ugly OWs to show us that it really is a cry for help and not serious? To kind of give themselves a safety catch on not getting too involved?
It is interesting what you say about your H maybe having some kind of quirk where he can't do long-term R's. I sometimes wonder of my H is the same way. For the longest time his folks kept saying to me - we can't believe he's married, we never thought he'd get married. It was pretty freaky I can tell you.
Anyhow, you take care, sounds like you have got over another big hurdle with style again
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
