It just seems so weird. There has to be a huge language problem between them unless he speaks French. I dont see how a long term relationship can succeed where the common language used between a couple is neither of their native language.
The lies are what hurt the worst. They are the ultimate betrayal. I feel like getting my wife a set of knives as a gift for when our divorce is final - It will have a note on the outside that says "I found these in my back and I think they are yours".