Ok, I have more info today and boy, I don't know what to do here. I'm about a week away from being able to afford to call a DB coach as money is a bit tight for me right now. Anyway, W emailed me today regarding her anger. The reasons: She cannot afford to pay for a divorce. Again, I said I would sign, but not pay the 500 dollars nor go to get the papers. She's pretty angry about that. Also, I guess she is in deep financial trouble: She says that her and her daughter are fighting to keep the house. It's her house, she owned it before I met her. I split the bills with her while living there. Well, she was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes in January so along with the medical expenses and her using the equity in the house to finance 2 cosmetic surgeries and without my income she is in trouble. She works full time, but she dug a huge hole by borrowing against the house. She is also mad because she feels I still owe money for some credit card purchases a couple of years ago. I'm being honest when I say that I paid every cent of my part of it. She believes otherwise. Since I am here, I would not try to make things worse by welching on any money that I owe. Admittedly, I was short on my part of the bills by a few months during a bad stretch at work. But I basically paid extra the following months. She has conveniently forgotten that and there is no telling her different. Sooooo...What in the hell do I do? There's a 50/50 chance she loses the house especially during these times. I could really use any and all input here. I mean, DBing is one part trying to be a friend, but it also says not to be a pushover either. I am clueless people. How should I handle this?
