My H first began to loose his hair when he was 18. As a consequence he was half bald when we got married (he was only 23). Now that it is fashionable to have a completely bald head (as opposed to signifying that you are thug) he shaves his head. I suspect he shaves it even more frequently now than he used to because I have noticed the odd grey stubble over the last 3 years and his vanity will not allow that. Look at it from his point of view he has a much younger OW (16 yrs different) and if she started to notice he was going grey she might suddenly remember that he is only 7 years younger than her dad!


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15