The two L's were supposed to set up a teleconference w/ the parenting evaluator, but as of yesterday, my L was still waiting to hear back from W's L. This has been a consistent theme of W and her L continually doing things slowly. I'm wondering if W is trying to break me financially so I'll quit the fight. That is probably why W refuses to pay me a dime even though she agreed to do so in front of the judge in court.
The only thing my L has said is it will all depend on what the parenting evaluator has to say. After his ruling, which could come as early as next week, the only things left will be to split up our two pensions and the rest of the items left in the house. So, I don't have anything at this point, but things seem to be positive for me as in this state W has to prove I'm an unfit father in order for me to be denied 50% custody of my D.
...Speaking of the custody issue, W told me today that I get to see D either Friday afternoon to 5 pm on Saturday or Saturday afternoon to Sunday evening. I had discussed this w/ my DB coach and we decided that as long as she has this power there isn't much I can do (my L says the same thing). However, my DB coach wanted me to tell her that I'll be glad when this whole thing is through, so I did put this into my e-mail response to W today:
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I'm looking forward to finally being able to get the custody issue settled so we all can have some consistency. The constant unknown is difficult and stressful on us all, so once everything is finalized, it will be so much better for everyone, but most importantly it will be better for D.
The reasoning here was the DB coach wanted me to let W know that I was not only going forward w/ my life but also to put her on alert that this power trip will be coming to an end for her soon.
I'm curious as to what reply I may get from W. I should find out tomorrow.
