ST - I know that some of things I said were not right and I believe I expressed that in my post above. And, you are right, I got defensive, right away. I should have looked at it "as if" he was concerned.
So, he calls me today, just to chat, at work. Weird. Then he had to go. He did mention how K is 3 months old today and he can't believe that it's already been 3 months. I told him "I know. She's growing up really fast." Wanted to add: and your missing soooo much. I sent him her birthday pic (it's on Alt Univ) and a little video of her grabbing and shaking her rattle - first time she's done that.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him