It means you're the one looking at her from afar. It means you need to stop obsessing over what she's allegedly doing. Unless she's sitting direcly in front of you staring, I'd drop the whole notion altogether...it's meaningless really.
She's not the person you married, and you need to burn that into your mind ASAP. The sooner you do, the easier it is to come to terms that you don't know who this person "staring" at you is. Why impose your preconceived intentions upon another's objectively benign actions? You'll just run yourself ragged.
OK...easier said than done...I know...keep working on detaching.
Let's say that she is staring at you from afar. What matters more?: (1) what you think she's thinking when she's looking at you, or (2) what you want her to think when she's looking at you. Remember, you're the one that's fishing, so you need to learn which lure is best.
Third time I'm gonna ask. Have you read Divorce Remedy and/or Divorce Busting? Kinda feels silly if I'm preaching to the choir...
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
