Since it seems we posts to the same people fairly often, I thought I better at least once see what's up with your situation. It sounds pretty good. Probably compared to after the bomb, I'm guessing it seems really good. Congratulations.
Since you sound like you are doing so well (although I read that the relationship isn't yet where you'd like it to be...is that right?), I have no advice. Just posting to say congrats. So, now I'm hoping that I didn't jinx you.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer