I'll fill you all in after the budget meeting tonight.
I think I have some things to figure out before I choose my direction.
I've been reading more of Puppies sitch and that of Steel_Box and a few others. I'm getting more insight than ever before but also learning that I have to come up with my own answers. What's right for one sitch may show the right direction for another but applied directly may not be "effective". (that damn word again)
Most certainly! It's important to keep in mind, that my prior marital relational style was overly pleasing/accommodating/rescuing, and my wife likes a strong, leading man. Had I had prior issues with being too demanding, controlling, chauvinistic, etc., many of my techniques might have backfired.
Every situation has its own dynamics, and its own context.
