True life is lived when tiny changes occur

[AliSuddenly]

Hey T !!! WOW!!!! Gosh, I am so happy for you !! THis is incredible. I love that he called back as well after his other call, thats a baby step right there. I also agree with kalni, I was thinking how interesting, that of all his friends, and musician friends, it was your opinion that he valued and maybe you were the one (or only one?) he could be honest with about his doubts and fears? And to show you his weakness like that and share it with you.. I also thought like Essie etc, that maybe you should have said, you can do it! But after your explanation, I can see that you were handling it in an informed way.

I can see this is a really positive step. I would say, dont call if you feel sick, plus he only called yesterday (?) so maybe leave it a little longer? (but not too long!). You may not be able to handle things *so* well, if you feel a bit rundown. Plus, if you call him when you are sick.. that shows you are very needing to talk to him...generally, I dont call my friends when I am sick, until I am feeling much better...

SOOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU !!!

Al xxx (get well soon!)