Wish I could read her mind (6)>>>>

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nds I just read your reply on my thread and thought I would post this here.

You said your W hardly ever seeks out your company. And I know you two spend alot of time together and that you initiate most of the plans for hanging out. What would happen if you stopped doing all the seeking, planning and suggesting?

Remember from the DB book about the see-saw effect. When one person in the R takes care of something all the time, the spouse stops doing it. Maybe you want to try not initiating everything and see if she picks up the ball.

Just a thought.