I think your advice should be what you really believe is best for him. I remember my xH always turned to me for advice about work because he knew I KNEW him and I could make suggestions based on facts/data no other person had about him. So, if you think he shouldnt do it, stick to that.
The fact he turned to you about it is GREAT!! Of all the people he has met, old and new friends he wanted to hear YOUR thoughts. That is definitely a baby step. Can you imagine him doing that if you hadn't made the effort to "re-connect" on the friendship basis? No way. Good job T.
If you talk about this again, try to talk to him as you would do with your very best friend, not your BF or xBF. Love K
