I honestly dont know if they were fighting..not that I am aware of....
The first time he came home I was not aware of the affair.
The second time he came home..I was adjusting well.. I was not at work so when he came home to see the kids on the weekends..I felt spending time together as a family was a positive.. we played games and had fun..
I was always done up to look good..sporting a tan and doing my hair and makeup.
This last time..he paid attention to me all week via texting and we had to spend my daughters birthday together..by choice...HIS..he invited me to go to lunch as a family.
I do know after the fact due to my daughter 10 reading his messages from OW that they were fighting..I think over him being around me.. but mostly just bitchy texts..she called him an ass... how can you do this..because he must have expressed confusion to her.....
When he came home.... I asked that he not speak to OW... he said he wouldnt but..when he is at work i wouldnt know... they also had a untrackable phone together....
As for myself... During this entire ordeal..I have never majorly flipped out..screamed yelled or blamed...only sent some emotional texts that might have been over the top..but for the most part have remained very calm and forgiving.
I have looked into myself to where I was not putting enough effort into our intimate relationship and we have come full circle ... have had the best most intense sex life ever.
I have continued to let him know that I dont think anything we have is irrepairable..I love him and want us to get back to where we once were.
He maintains that he loves me and will always love me..but something is lost..... and he knows it will never be found
