4 years later WAS friend "waking up" :(

[Little Engine]

I have a friend that was in a bad marriage, her husband cheated on her on two occasions with two different women. They tried to work it out and fumbled along until she met OM and started her affair. That killed the marriage. She also said that the divorce was the right thing for her at the time. When our situation came to light, she talked to my W and told her that she was making a mistake and to try and work it out for our kids. She told me that she wished she and her first husband could've worked it out. OM is now living with her and is a piece of work. Her family hates him and won't have anything to do with him. She says that if her relationship with him doesn't work out she is going back on the shelf and stay single! The regrets come eventually. I know of two other women who said the same thing. I think Michelle is right when she says if you are willing to wait it out you can usually get your wife back.