Wow...I typed a post and it dissappeared....bizzare...
Anyway..the first time he truely came home other than one night here and there (after initial month..weekly date nights)was June 15 Fathers day..he stayed until July 7
Affair was revealed July 21 He came home August 10 until the 20th
I took kids to his family in Chicago August 27- Sept 1 he texted and flirted entire week after I came home
Daughter 14 bday Sept 6 Told him he needed stuff out Sept 5..acted surprised Home Sept 6-14
Back to work for me Sept 15..dealing with this...
I feel that every time he has come home the only common denominator is my emotional strength.... I have started to feel better..less crying.. then he leaves again after I have been emotionally reinvested and I am back to square 1... so what do you think it means...his pattern?
