Lost- wow- that is huge progress. i can imagine that took a lot of courage on your part...and on your H's part.
i can really feel from him he is scared to death to face this about himself. he knows there is somthieng wrong...but he cant be made to feel weak or like a schmuck - words from my DB coach.
dont pry. let him come to you. especially after this major breakthrough.
you are doing great- remembr do not believe what he says. its all a DEFENSE!
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