letting go

[artteach]

Yes I do have it. My H even read the section on infidelity and then stopped talking to her but then gave in and started again. The only good thing about the most recent phone bill is the calls are getting less and less each day (some days a month ago it was 50 or 60 times a day they were calling back and forth) now it 6 or 7 and for only 3 or 4 minutes at a time not the hour or two it was before. I have read and reread the part about what to do if your spouse is still involved with someone else and am trying to bite my tounge and act as if I am okay with my own life and am trying to do things without him, make plans and such without worring about what is he going to do. I have literally sat on my hands sometimes to stop myself from calling him when he is at work, to stop the pursuit, hard as it is I know the constant calls and stuff were pushing him away so for the last few weeks really making an effort to get on with my own thing.