Jak,
Then it seems like the compromise would be marital counseling or IC, where he wouldn't have to deal with groups. A weekend getaway doesn't seem like a fair compromise to me.

Let him know what you would consider a fair compromise.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching