KerryK, I am so sorry that you stbX is behaving like that. I've watched a good friend of mine these last two years as he and his xW know peace only as the lulls between the fighting. It hasn't been about money, but, about alcohol and their daughter, but, I got to read the report that the family investigator put together and it was pretty obvious how their fighting has impacted their daughter. Be strong and knock the covers off those balls. I'd recommend sporting clays too. I've never done it, but, I know that the kick of the shotgun would be a healing balm when I'm really angry.