Oh, I do hope to meet you one day and grab a pint. You've been a real help these last couple of months.
I still have reservations too, but, when I weigh my self-respect against continuing down this path of lying and being a doormat, self-respect wins. I don't necessarily intend to file for a divorce right away even though I'm going to go and talk to an attorney. But, like Amy, I will sit down and calmly decide on a date to bring things to an end if she insists on continuing down the path she is currently walking.
