I'm not surprised the "I love you" speech messed with your head. You still love her. It is her that is confused, and that is a helpless feeling. You are doing the right thing, focusing on the kids, doing your projects, etc. It is what is keeping your mind off of what your W is doing. It is allowing you to still love her, too, had she come out of the fog. I still think she may, and you are smart to behave the way you are. Keep swimming straight like you have been. Her speech was like a little current you got caught in for a bit and will get out of. The only way you stay is if she continues and decides to work at getting you back. She knows you love her.
