Sara,

Yes your right we are. Very excitable people. I know he isn't going to change, I have to change the way I react. That may help the way he goes about it. Believe me I have no expectations. But I only know what I can control about myself.

Perfect example, yesterday I had alot of work in the moring, and he was asking me for something else, and he wasn't mean or anything, but I was feeling a bit overwhelmed so I told him that and I was doing the best I could at the moment for what I had to get out before my Bid deadline. He actually was responsive and backed off. Yes this may not happen again but it was nice for that moment.


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.