That is a cool song. I guess I get a drink. It's still early for me, I'll just take coffee with Bailey's.

TAL, I want to throw this out there while things are good between you and your H. You are both hot-tempered people, and arguments develop between you very fast. You need to try hard to remember this good feeling that you have now. He isn't going to change, so you can expect him to be critical of you again at the drop of a hat. You need to keep in mind that you love him, and not allow yourself to get too angry when he does criticize you. Maybe if you had a discussion about this dynamic he could understand how he pushes your buttons and makes you so angry. But I really don't expect that even if he understood, he would change his behavior.