waw advice needed I am desperate,!!!

[dday101798]

rick,

Listen to us, BACK OFF!

My wife of 10 years and best friend of 11 hates me now because I wouldn't stop pushing. Up until last weekend I have ammassed a list of completely stupid things I've done to give her every right to feel this way. Why? Because you can not control your emotions until you detch from the WAW.

I went over to "her house" the other night to make sure my kids were okay and she told me the next day that she refused to answer the door because she's afraid of me, and I understand where she's coming from, I have not kept my emotions in check at all.

Now, since I have decided that the divorce needs to go through before I end in jail or a mental institution, I think have I have FINALLY been able to complete the detach stage.

And gues what, today she notices that I am dressing differently, for various reasons all at once and commented on how good I looked all the way down to my shoes. BUT, it's just too late more the less. I know the man she's with, I know she has contracted something from him and I am not putting my health in jeapordy by taking her back.

Don't let you be me, you have a chance, back off and detach, carry on on yourself and let her persue you if she so desires.