letting go

[artteach]

I have told him how I feel about it, that we cannot begin to get better until she is completley out of his life and he is just resiting it. He keeps saying he will get over it soon. I have stopped bringing it up and since I found out last month they were still talking I have bit my tounge a lot. I am not sure if he really wants to be home yet. He keeps saying he loves me and even gets upset if I don't say it back, but I think he is still figuring out what he wants. As for me, every day I think today is the day I am going to tell him to leave and then I change my mind, so I guess I don't know what I want either.